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Monday, January 30, 2023

Late post: New Year's Resolution for 2023


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 It's been so long since my last post! As they say, new year, new me😄 LOL!!! hopefully.  Many things have happened since then (my late post✌️). There's Covid and the "stay at home" policy worldwide. It's been 4 years of Covid19 pandemic and until now.  We're still suffering from it. Tomorrow is the last day of January. I thought, somehow, I could make a difference. I've started (again😊) my new year's resolution for this year. I'll try again and again✌️

1. Be more prayerful

2. Save some money

3. Don't spend money on school supplies such as art materials, decorations, student projects, classroom displays, etc. 

4. Read books or listen to Podcast about the following:

  • Financial Literacy
  • Personal Growth
  • Self-worth 
  • Self-motivation
  • Teaching and Learning
  • Anger and Stress Management
  • Mental Health
  • Social Relationships
  • Psychology
  • English Communication (Speaking & Writing)
5. Make more time for family on weekends and holidays

6. Do the household chores with my family

7. Tutor my kids 

8. Learn new skills

9. Search for income-generating projects or online jobs

10.  Stay away from toxic people, no need to react anytime that I'm offended, pause, keep silent, avoid them, or walk away 🤓

11. Time Management

12. Financial Management

13. No school work at home (I'm not a slave 😂) focus on my family and myself 

14. Make time to relax, rest and sleep🙃

15. Exercise, go to the gym, and lose weight😅

Whew! There are so many things to do😳😅. I've come to realize that I'm getting old and I need to really be mindful of my mental health 😭. Sometimes, I ask myself, is it worth it to be a workaholic and spend money on things that the school should provide? is it worth my time, effort, and money? Nah! and so I changed. I've been working for 9 years😳. So far, no recognition, no certificate, and nada😆😂 

Let me tell you a story of this co-teacher of mine. She's been working for 2 years at our school, and needless to say, she still needs guidance on teaching. I was shocked to know that she was awarded as the "most punctual and perfect attendance" in our department. To be honest, I'm the first one to arrive at school (6AM?😆). I believe that she got Covid in 2021, which means to say that she was absent for a week, and I hadn't. In my nine (9) years, I have never been given anything yet to compensate and motivate me (at least!) for the serious things that I do for work. I mean seriously! When some teachers come to school, they either gossip with co-teachers or use their mobile for Tiktok, Youtube, Netflix, and the list goes on... Plus, I spent money on things that make my classroom more appealing, refreshing, and welcoming. It's because I'm a homeroom teacher. I feel responsible for the classroom environment. Getting to work at 6AM and going home at 5PM. Our official time is from 7:30AM-5PM.

Last week, it was our Sports Day. I was in-charged of the opening dance number with the color guards. I taught about 26 students from Grades 4-6. Without the costume, it will look dull and ordinary. The school announced that we must not tell the parents or students to buy any costumes. So, I thought that the school had a budget for Sports day. I supposed there is, like the other years. It's 350 Thb😂 out of my pocket and says bye thank you for being such a fool! (foolish me)😅🤣😂 The costume is for 26 students, made from metallic paper. 

Again, experience is the best and yet cruelest teacher. I've learned from my saddest lesson. It's very disappointing. This is epic. I have to endure for seven (7) long years before I finally wave goodbye. You might think that I'm stupid for staying in this school for 9 years and waiting for another 7 years (ikr😳) if I feel that I'm not being valued or the workplace is toxic. I'm staying for the sake of my own children who are currently studying there, and it's all because of the discounted tuition fees. It's the only reason why I stay despite the stress, pressure, and overwork but less pay. By the way, I'm receiving the same salary as those new teachers without experience, and skills.

Then, I need to save up some more money for my family. I'm financing my eldest who is now in College (incoming 2nd year). It's too pricy to send children to school here in Thailand. As I've said I need more income-generating projects, online jobs, or other sources of income because the kids are growing up, and I have to support my one and only nephew (he's an orphan). I have no other choice and I'm willing to raise him if no one else can.

I feel the need to relax and I wanna make sure I have time for it on weekends. My favorite day is Saturday. I usually go for a massage right after my tutorial job. It's very refreshing. It's my reward for working so hard from Monday to Saturday.  And by relaxing, I also meant reading good books and listening to podcasts that are very interesting. I also hope while doing these, I'm exercising at the gym or in my room. 

Most importantly, I must have more time with my three growing young ladies to see a movie, shop, dine out, swim, and a lot more. We haven't been out of town lately. I hope we could go somewhere we haven't visited yet to create more memories together. 

Finally, I pray that the Lord grants these resolutions and that I become a better person today than yesterday. May He guide me for the plans that I set this year and if these aren't aligned with God's plan for me, I should be humble, accept, and still be thankful for whatever I have in my life because everything has a reason. God knows best, and His plans are perfect.

Friday, April 20, 2018

Welcome Back, Elektra!😂😅


This is me again!🙃 I'm back from deep sleep😛🤪😜 I was too busy with family issues, my studies, and teaching. We already moved out close to our schools/workplaces, the good thing about it is that my kids who are incoming Grade 3 and Grade 1 are both studying at my school. But, we moved in about four years ago. This means that I haven't written any blogs from then on for 4 or 5 years. 

Before we moved into our house, I also resigned from the government school where I worked as an English Conversation Teacher. Right now, I work as a Foreign Teacher in Grade 5, teaching Science and Health. But, I also have experience teaching English Language, Social Studies, Arts and Crafts, Cooking, and Drama.

Our school is a Catholic, private and bilingual school located in Minburi, Bangkok. I have a 50% discount on the tuition fees of my children (but, my partner pays for them, lol). From our place, it's about a 10-15 minute drive/travel going to work.

It came to a point where the system in government changed. Those who are non-education graduates must study units in education, which, I think is just right. They want to see to it that only qualified foreigners will be hired to do teaching jobs in Bangkok, Thailand. As many foreigners are just backpackers, they will get the job and then resign later on after they have gotten a big salary offer from beautiful provinces like Phuket, Chiangmai, Koh Samui, Bangkok City, etc.

Now, I had to decide to take up a master's degree in educational administration which, I failed to finish due to financial and time constraints. I couldn't be able to do the thesis writing because it required more time and cost me more money than I'd expected. I could almost finish but not the thesis writing. It was really a disaster because the Thai professor wasn't too equipped enough to guide me where I was supposed to go. There are two advisers but they don't agree with each other so I've given up on preserving my sanity and saving my time and money.

Trying to figure out how to go from here to there, I've learned that my decision was a blessing in disguise! It's because Educational Administration is not equal to teaching. It has education units but, in terms of the job description, it's different. It is more related to becoming an admin or principal. So, to cut the story short, I have downgraded in a good sense. I took a Diploma in Teaching Profession which is only 3 semesters with 33 credits. If you are interested to teach in Thailand, but you have Bachelor's Degree which is not related to teaching, you may copy the link below and search for more information about this program. It costs 74,000 Thai Baht for the whole course. I started in August of 2017 and will be finished in December (hopefully!)
     
https://www.stic.ac.th/postgraduate-program/graduate-diploma-in-teaching-profession

Working, studying and home management keeps me away from blogging again🥺 Now, it's summertime, and I have extra time to blog. I love working in summer school. This year is different because we'll go on a field trip. This is the first time in my four years of working in this school, that I will go on a field trip. It is going to be fun! They said it's somewhere in Ekkamai.

Time to go! I need to catch some sleep.. Bye for now... Zzzzzzzzzz🙃😴
 

Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Trip To Angkor Wat, November 2011

I went out of Bangkok on the first week of November with my youngest daughter to go to Ban Pakkard, Cambodia. I didn't actually plan to go somewhere far, but something came up, that I never thought would happen. My docs weren't approved to get my visa extension in Thailand (sigh). I couldn't do anything about it, so I finally decided to go on a package tour with four of my acquaintances who had a similar situation as I was. We hired a taxi to Angkor Wat (Wat means Temple) and it took us 12 hours back and forth. It cost me 6,000 Thai Baht for the whole trip to the temple (all-inclusive!). The entrance fee was 700 Thai Baht or $20.

It turned out that it was fun after all! Traveling is indeed a good stress reliever... Here are the beautiful sceneries @Angkor Wat.






















Angkor is one of the most important archaeological sites in South-East Asia. It is considered one of the UNESCO world heritage sites. It was fun. Our visas got sorted out somehow. Perhaps there was a reason why we got stranded 😅 so that we could visit one of the wonders of the world. Looking back, I was thinking if I could just bring a hi-tech digital camera or the latest iPhone to capture the majestic work of art🦋

HIT: The Little Big Club Live in Bangkok

November 17, 2012, at 3pm The Little Big Club Live in Concert was held at Royal Paragon, 5/F of Siam Paragon Mall. This was really a great show! The casts of the show are Angelina Ballerina, Tom The Builder, Thomas, the Tank Engine, Sam The Fireman, Pingu, and Barney and Friends. It was our first family bonding at the live concert here in Bangkok.

The tickets were expensive (3,000 Thai Baht/each). But, it was okay just for the kids.

Our tickets💕

This was the streamer.
                                         
Our favorite and very famous characters: Barney and Friends (Baby Bop, BJ, and Riff)

My children before the show start

I love them all!



The Finale: Angelina Ballerina, Tom The Builder, Thomas, the Tank Engine, Sam The Fireman, Pingu, and Barney and Friends

I noticed that some people were just looking for Barney and Friends and not the other characters so they went inside late! The only downside was that it's kinda short of the Barney casts to perform live. And kids didn't like the other not-so-famous performers. But, if you're asking me... I had fun... so much fun to sing along with Barney and friends and my kids. Oh, and my hubby did his dancing and cheering with the casts, too! 🤪😜

I only wish we had souvenir pics with Barney and Baby Bop.. but, the organizer of the show didn't arrange for this, so many kids and parents were frustrated. I am just happy I took a video of them performing live! Oh well~ childhood, I miss it! 😉😍🥰🤗  

Saturday, October 29, 2011

REPOST: 6 Diseases To Be Cautious During Floods

I've got this important message from my Facebook wall, it is actually from Samitevej Expat Club, where I am one of the members of the said group. I thought about reposting it here to help someone who needs this kind of information. Especially, now that we are experiencing this flood crisis here in Bangkok, Thailand. 

Technically, my family and I are still on safe grounds, with no floods (as of now).. But, we aren't sure of what's gonna happen tomorrow. At least, we are prepared on how to prevent getting sick by reading and understanding what was listed below:

Anyway, PREVENTION is still better than cure.

6 Diseases to Be Cautious During Floods

1. Leptospirosis

Leptospirosis is an epidemic that is contracted from animals. It is caused by the bacteria called Leptospira which is present in animals’ urine such as mice, cows, and buffaloes. A human being can be infected by leptospira bacteria through an open wound or through the skin that has been in the water for a prolonged period of time. The bacteria can also enter the body through the mucous membrane of the eyes and mouth.

Symptoms: Leptospirosis has two different types of symptoms. The less severe one has the symptoms of a normal cold with headaches, fever, and muscle aches. This can be cured if the patient acts early and seeks medical attention right at the beginning of the illness. The more severe one has the symptoms of red eye infection, watery eyes, unable to tolerate bright lights. When the infection spread to the brain, the patient will become delirious, and slip into a coma. And if the disease infects the entire body, it may cause internal bleeding which can result in death.

Prevention: Avoid walking and swimming in trapped flood water, especially for children, who enjoy treading or swimming in flood water. If you cannot avoid walking through the flooded areas, try to walk quickly and try not to stay in the water for too long as the skin become soft and tender and can be infected more easily. You should wear rubber boots every time you walk in the water to prevent foot injury and prevent pathogens from contacting the wound on the foot or leg as well as prevent being bitten by animals in the water. People who have an onset of a headache and fever must immediately see their doctor, and do not wait until the symptoms become more serious as it may be too late for treatment.


2. Cholera

This disease is caused by the bacteria Vibrio Cholera which is spread in drinking water and food. The flies are carriers of this disease. The disease is contracted by drinking and eating food swarmed by flies that are infected with cholera bacteria and by eating uncooked food.

Symptoms: The patient has watery stool several times a day. He may have abdominal pain or vomiting. But if the infection is severe, the patient will have diarrhea of enormous volume that looks like rice water and smells fishy.

Prevention: Eat clean and freshly cooked food and drink boiled water; wash and clean your hands and food containers. Do not use flood water to wash food containers and avoid contact with cholera patients. If you contract the disease, you must seek medical advice and follow the medical instructions.


3. Typhoid fever

This is caused by Salmonella Typhi bacteria which may be present in water and food similar to cholera disease. It is spread by contaminated drinking water and food.

Symptoms: When first contracted with this disease, the symptoms will not be apparent immediately. The symptoms will be obvious after about 1 week. The patients have headaches, loss of appetite, high fever, diarrhea, some develop a rash on the body, and stomach bloating. The symptoms may go away within 1 month by itself. However, patients should still seek medical advice if they contract this disease to prevent complications such as contracting pneumonia.

Prevention: Avoid food that may be contaminated. This means that you eat clean food from a clean container including washing your hands before every meal. You should also avoid street food in an area that is unclean or at high risk for contamination. Alternatively, you can get vaccinated against typhoid fever.


4. Hepatitis A

The inflammation of the liver cells causes the liver to function abnormally. The virus that causes inflammation of the liver during the flood period is hepatitis A. This illness can be caused by eating dirty or uncooked food.

Symptoms: In the first week, the patients have a mild fever, loss of appetite, abdominal pain, pain around the right rib cage, urine of dark tea color as well as an onset of jaundice and yellow eyes. The patients may be back to normal within 2-4 weeks.

Prevention: Eat clean and cooked food. Do not share the same drinking glass and spoon with others.


5. Conjunctivitis

This is caused by bacteria called Chlamydia trachomatis and Bacterial Conjunctivitis. It may be due to allergies or exposure to toxic materials, often caused by rubbing the eyes with dirty hands or with a towel or handkerchief.

Symptoms: The patients have itchy eyes. Some may feel so itchy that they have to rub their eyes all the time. Some may feel only minor irritation and have more discharge than usual. The discharge is pus-like and makes the eye stick shut in the morning. Their vision may be unclear or blurred. Some may have eye sore.
Prevention: Wash your hands, and do not share cosmetics, towels, or handkerchiefs with others. Avoid touching your eyes in all cases, and do not share eye drops with others. If your eyes start to feel itchy or irritating, consult a pharmacist or doctor without delay.


6. Dengue Fever

This is caused by virus infection with Aedes aegypti mosquitoes as the carrier. The disease is frequently found in children. The outbreaks are common in the rainy season which is the breeding season for these mosquitoes.

Symptoms: The patient has had a high fever for 2-7 days, loss of appetite, vomiting with some brownish materials, muscle pain, reddish skin, rash, and red blood spots on the skin. In the advanced stage, the patient will have a low fever, cold hands, and feet, rapid pulse rate, small amount of urination. They may vomit frequently and may have a shock. If they experience these symptoms, they should see a doctor immediately.

Prevention: Try to avoid being bitten by mosquitoes by applying mosquito repellent. This is the best method. And do not leave containers with water around the house because they will become breeding grounds for the mosquitoes. If you contracted this disease, you must avoid mosquito bites as they will spread the disease to others.



                                           Photos by: Cecille Cruda via Facebook

My special thanks to Cecille for these photo shots that I grabbed today. I'm glad she's safe notwithstanding this flood crisis. I hope and pray that this will end up soon.

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